Katy’s Mailbox

MAAAAAAIL TIME.

Katy,

Just started dating a girl about 3 weeks ago. With Valentines Day right around the corner, how should we go about this?!

I really like her, but we are still in the stages of getting to know each other. I don’t want her to think I’m moving too fast.

HELP!

Harry

I have received so many different variations of THIS EMAIL.

Valentine’s Day is the biggest minefield of any new relationship. If you just started dating someone, I know your panicking about it.. and YOU SHOULD BE.

If this helps, here’s the majority opinion. In a new survey, 42% of people say you should ONLY do a vday dinner if you’ve been dating about 2 months.. 37% said you should wait until it’s been 3.

OVERALL, almost 80% of people say if you started dating someone in 2013, IT’S TOO SOON.

What do you think of this?

I would agree you probably shouldn’t put a bunch of pressure on a Valentine’s “dinner.” BUT, you definitely shouldn’t ignore the occasion either.

What would you do?!