In case you haven’t noticed, it’s hot. Summer is slowly rolling in, the temperatures have yet to stay in the triple digits, but still, it’s REALLY #$%*@&^% HOT.
Which brings us to today’s WYR.
After what I thought to be a pretty embarrassing personal experience, which would YOU rather?
This works for both guys and girls..
After posing this to the web wing, I was met with different responses from men. One said boob sweat would freak him out as he didn’t know that girls sweat (LOL) and the other said, if the girl is attractive enough, he wouldn’t care where she was sweating.
I would definitely go with pit stains (that just sounds so gross) because at least you can keep your arms down.. there’s no way to hide wet stains on the front of your shirt! #bustygirlproblems
HAHA. Which would you choose?
AND HERE IS THAT GOLDEN AUDIO I PLAYED TO PROVE THAT BOOB SWEAT IS INDEED, A REAL THING! bahahahaha! You’re welcome ladies.
Here’s a funny thought, as much as I pretend to hate Justin Bieber’s song “Boyfriend,” he’s really onto something there. I mean look up the lyrics – “I just want to love and treat you right?” “If you were on my arm girl, you’d never be alone?” “Spend a week with me girl, I’ll be calling you my girlfriend?”
That’s exactly what women want! Who knew the Biebs was so spot on about relationships?!
On that note, I’m really loving this little segment, because it seems like I’ve dated every kind of a$$hole there is.
And so with the help of a funny tumblr I found and a few listener emails, “Should I Dump This A$$hole?” was created. You email me your relationship problem and after offering what little advice I can with my given life experience, I then pose it to a completely unbiased listener audience for their take.
It’s like free therapy, and you can stop bugging all your friends about the relationship that no matter how much you try and justify, just isn’t working.
Here’s an email from “Jen”
I met “Dave” five months ago out at a bar on northgate. I know people say not to pick someone up at a bar, but we really hit it off. Since then, we have been spending about 4 or 5 nights a week together. We go to stuff around town together. He’s constantly texting me and calling me, he’s not a flake. I enjoy the way things are going and felt no need to define our relationship… until the other day when he informed me that he isn’t ready for anything serious. He doesn’t want to be anyone’s boyfriend.
This is hard for me because I know he isn’t seeing anyone else. Honestly, with a full time job, how would he even have the time? Maybe he’s just scared of the term boyfriend? I don’t understand how he can seem so devoted to me… and so NOT at the same time.
Should I just be secure in the fact that he’s spending time with me, and that maybe his actions are speaking louder than his words here? Is there a chance that despite what he’s saying, I should stay with him? Or should I dump this a$$hole?
First of all, let me say I have been here many, many times. I don’t know what it is, but I’ve always felt weird about “dtr-ing.” It just seems so strange to be in (what you think is) this great situation, and then have to throw it all off by having an uncomfortable conversation!
I’m sorry to have to tell you, you’re wasting your time in a fake relationship. You spend all this time together, yet he doesn’t have to commit to you. Pretty sweet deal for him, huh?
This sort of goes back to last week’s email, in that, if you want a serious relationship, this isn’t the guy for you. No amount of waiting around is going to make him realize that he’s ready.
A guy who is into you wants you all to himself. He wants people to know you are his. If that’s what you want, run away. Run far away.
I say dump this a$$hole.
Am I wrong? What do YOU think?
*Update* Texts from 23504
Me bestie has the EXACT same thing going on. I say DUMP HIM!!
Dump him! You are just a friend with benefits until he meets the one he wouldn’t mind showing off
Again dump him!!! Read the book”He is just not that into you”"”:}
Yes she needs to and find someone that what to be with her
Your thinking to much like a girl. Get a guy in there to get a guys perspective
Kick him to the curb
DUMP THAT JERK x10
She obviously doesn’t want to be alone so she should do the same thing as him. This will either get him to change his tune or she will find someone else.
Dump him!! I was seeing a guy and I thought he spent all his time with me but he had another girlfriend who
I say do wat u said or there is this tv show called cheaters get caught by this camera crew and let me tell u its lol. So contact those pepole
I wasn’t sure about the girl I’m with now in the beginning but now we’re happy like bumble bees and honey hot tub
There has to be a reason why he doesn’t want to be in a relationship she needs to find what the reason is and see if it can be resolved
For all you ladies out there dealing with a deadbeat guy you gotta remember there is always another guy waiting to say “spend a week with your boy and I’ll be calling you my girlfriend”
Coming from a guy: she needs to talk to him first
If a guy can’t commit to having a girlfriend then these ladies should move on. There are guys waiting to give them the world. My personal story is I asked my girlfriend to marry me a year and a half ago before I moved from Virginia to college station. She is still my fiance, we’re still committed to one another, and when she finishes school we will get married.
Don’t necessarily dump him yet. My current boyfriend didn’t want a label on our relationship until after we had been hanging out for 5 months because he had just gotten out of a relationship. We have been official for 7 months now and so happy!
Verdict? DUMP HIM!
In honor of yesterday’s elections, here’s today’s humpday hypothetical.
I’m going with the political activist, because sometimes those guys are funny.
I used to live in Austin and those green peace kids never knew what in the world they were talking about. It was kind of entertaining to ask them questions I knew they couldn’t answer.
..But NOBODY wins when you’re stuck on a street corner with a doomsday theorist.
Which would YOU rather?
Since I brought this up last Tuesday, I’ve been flooded with messages (mostly from girls) trying to describe to me the problems in their relationships, wanting to know if he’s worth sticking around for.
Here’s one from listener “Mandy.” She goes on to say in the email that her parents tell her she should cut and run, and the majority of her friends don’t like this guy.
Honestly, this one’s tough for me because I have never been married.. but she’s asking yall for help.
Should she dump this a$$hole?
I’m 29 and have been living with this great guy for three years. We are in love, he’s great to me, and we get along perfectly. He has no problems committing to me, he just DOESN’T want to GET MARRIED. At all. He’s a few years older than me and the problem is he married young and inevitably, divorced young. He says he doesn’t want to ruin a good thing.
It’s crazy to break up with him just because he doesn’t want to settle down… right?
We are sharing our lives together and are very happy. He’s even told me on numerous occasions he’s open to having kids. He just doesn’t want marriage.
In this case, I don’t think I should dump him, maybe I should just dump the idea of getting married?
What do you think?! Should I dump this a$$hole?
WOAH! Okay so I’m not married, or a relationship expert by any means, and this might be controversial, but YES!
If he really loves you, no matter how traumatic a divorce, the person you plan on spending your life AND HAVING KIDS WITH should at least be open enough to getting over his fear of marriage if it’s important to YOU.
But maybe you’re not that into marriage either? If that’s the case, don’t break up with him and just enjoy your lives together. That part is up to you.
What do YOU think?
Sample of the texts from 23504
Tell her to read “he is just not that into you” dump him
Yes she should dump that jerk
Yes. If he doesnt have a problem with commitment than marriage should not be a problem.
Dump him. If they’re living together, he should commit to marriage. I wouldn’t have kids with someone I wasn’t married to – it’s to easy for him to walk out
If he has no commitment issues then he shouldn’t have a problem marrying you! It sounds like he doesn’t wanna marry you but says the next best thing to keep you around! Dump his ass….it isn’t worth it cuz you’ll never be satisfied with the way things are n he’s not willing to give more!
No she shouldn’t and yes Katy ur off base and why call him a jerk some single ladies would die for just one relationship she should be happy he’s committed to her and even talking about kids some folks are blessed with out even knowing it… So no she shouldn’t dump him that’s just dumb.. He will be ready when he’s ready.
don’t think she should dump him. As long as he’s true and good to her that’s all you need. I myself am not allowed to be married (im lesbian and haverbeen in a commuted relationship for 5 years.) and as a girl this is something you grow up dreaming of. But if he’s important enough to you, marriage is just a piece of paper. Now no matter what the reason as long as your heart belongs to him that’s all that matters
I think it is romantic to wake up every morning choosing to go to bed with that same person every night. You don’t need a piece of paper for that. Shared health care and taxes are issues that have to be delt with.
it doesn’t matter, you found a good guy, stop being a bitch about it, and stop looking for something to complain about, maybe he should dump you.
I am a guy and if he does not want ti marry her then yes and she need to find someone that love her and that will
Seems too me HE SHOULD RUN!!! He’s giving her what some other guys won’t and she’s making a big deal about it
Get out. After three years he’s not interested if he hasn’t put a ring on her finger. He’s in love with the idea of her. If he really wanted her he would be interested in her heart. A real man would fight for her. It sounds like hes the kind of guy that never is without a girlfriend… its his method of feeling validated. Ask him what he wants in life and see if he has an answer. If he doesn’t he has no idea who he is and needs to figure that out first.
*from a guy. sorry ladies, he’s taken..