Since I brought this up last Tuesday, I’ve been flooded with messages (mostly from girls) trying to describe to me the problems in their relationships, wanting to know if he’s worth sticking around for.
Here’s one from listener “Mandy.” She goes on to say in the email that her parents tell her she should cut and run, and the majority of her friends don’t like this guy.
Honestly, this one’s tough for me because I have never been married.. but she’s asking yall for help.
Should she dump this a$$hole?
I’m 29 and have been living with this great guy for three years. We are in love, he’s great to me, and we get along perfectly. He has no problems committing to me, he just DOESN’T want to GET MARRIED. At all. He’s a few years older than me and the problem is he married young and inevitably, divorced young. He says he doesn’t want to ruin a good thing.
It’s crazy to break up with him just because he doesn’t want to settle down… right?
We are sharing our lives together and are very happy. He’s even told me on numerous occasions he’s open to having kids. He just doesn’t want marriage.
In this case, I don’t think I should dump him, maybe I should just dump the idea of getting married?
What do you think?! Should I dump this a$$hole?
WOAH! Okay so I’m not married, or a relationship expert by any means, and this might be controversial, but YES!
If he really loves you, no matter how traumatic a divorce, the person you plan on spending your life AND HAVING KIDS WITH should at least be open enough to getting over his fear of marriage if it’s important to YOU.
But maybe you’re not that into marriage either? If that’s the case, don’t break up with him and just enjoy your lives together. That part is up to you.
What do YOU think?
Sample of the texts from 23504
Tell her to read “he is just not that into you” dump him
Yes she should dump that jerk
Yes. If he doesnt have a problem with commitment than marriage should not be a problem.
Dump him. If they’re living together, he should commit to marriage. I wouldn’t have kids with someone I wasn’t married to – it’s to easy for him to walk out
If he has no commitment issues then he shouldn’t have a problem marrying you! It sounds like he doesn’t wanna marry you but says the next best thing to keep you around! Dump his ass….it isn’t worth it cuz you’ll never be satisfied with the way things are n he’s not willing to give more!
No she shouldn’t and yes Katy ur off base and why call him a jerk some single ladies would die for just one relationship she should be happy he’s committed to her and even talking about kids some folks are blessed with out even knowing it… So no she shouldn’t dump him that’s just dumb.. He will be ready when he’s ready.
don’t think she should dump him. As long as he’s true and good to her that’s all you need. I myself am not allowed to be married (im lesbian and haverbeen in a commuted relationship for 5 years.) and as a girl this is something you grow up dreaming of. But if he’s important enough to you, marriage is just a piece of paper. Now no matter what the reason as long as your heart belongs to him that’s all that matters
I think it is romantic to wake up every morning choosing to go to bed with that same person every night. You don’t need a piece of paper for that. Shared health care and taxes are issues that have to be delt with.
it doesn’t matter, you found a good guy, stop being a bitch about it, and stop looking for something to complain about, maybe he should dump you.
I am a guy and if he does not want ti marry her then yes and she need to find someone that love her and that will
Seems too me HE SHOULD RUN!!! He’s giving her what some other guys won’t and she’s making a big deal about it
Get out. After three years he’s not interested if he hasn’t put a ring on her finger. He’s in love with the idea of her. If he really wanted her he would be interested in her heart. A real man would fight for her. It sounds like hes the kind of guy that never is without a girlfriend… its his method of feeling validated. Ask him what he wants in life and see if he has an answer. If he doesn’t he has no idea who he is and needs to figure that out first.
*from a guy. sorry ladies, he’s taken..
LMFAO is coming to the Toyota Center June 12.. and I’ve got a pair of tickets for you TONIGHT.
Here’s what you need to know:
Friday nights mean dollar drinks at Daisy Dukes. I’ll be out there doing my live broadcast from 10 to midnight, and sometime before I wrap that up..
WE ARE GOING TO HAVE AN LMFAO DANCE OFF.
Tune in to the broadcast for more details!!
See yall tonight!
Sometimes I find humpday hypotheticals that are disgusting, vile, and just down right sadistic.
Then there are those that are scary in other ways.. which would YOU rather?
Judging from the web wing feedback, I think this might be a gender thing. Guys will pick dad and girls will pick mom.
I on the other hand, would rather disappoint my dad. But what about you?!
Cruising the web this morning, I found this little gem of a tumblr.
Geniusly titled “Yo, Should I Dump This A$$hole?” the site tells you, in no uncertain terms, how to deal with hypothetical girlfriends, well sexing boyfriends, and any other a$$hole partners you might encounter.
C-Check it out here.
Be warned, it’s language is mildly NSFW and the author gets a little too political for my taste, but that being said, the concept is HIGHlarious!
Do you have a story of your own? Let me know about it and we’ll put it to the audience to tell you whether or not dating this person is worth it.
Should you dump that a$$hole? Let’s find out!
UPDATE: Here’s today’s story:
Yo, the guy I’ve been dating hates my family.. I mean HATES them and for no reason. I’m really close with them so it’s awkward to bring him around. He’s especially snarky to my younger sister. It’s confusing because hes really sweet to me and a great boyfriend. What should I do? Should I dump the a$$hole?
Texts from 23504:
Are you in that type of relationship and if so, when will you free yourself up?
Yes family is family!
Family first!! Kick his butt to the curb.
Dump him! So not worth it… family is much more important!
Yes and give her my name and number. it’s nick. lol.
She should talk with him and tell him what she feels n that he should change the way he treats her family, tell him that her family is important to her. Give him a chance to see if he changes, if he refuses, he’s not the one
DUMP HIM! If he isn’t mature enough to respect your family regardless of personal opinion then he is an undercover a$$hole.
A good relationship should make you happy. Causing you to isolate yourself or have strained relationships with your family doesn’t fit that bill.
I’ve been there, done that. Almost married a guy but my parents didn’t agree so we cut it off! And surprisingly he respected that which was nice lol
F$^# yes! DUMP HIM. Would she let just anyone off the street be that way to her sister? More than likely your going to break up anyway. Most relationships end.
What do YOU think?
Tonight come out to Party on the Patio at Ozona Grill & Bar. We’ve got crawfish from my good friends Rick and Carson at Crazy Cajun Cooking, $2 wells, $2 domestic drafts, and our $3 mystery drink of the week?! A PICKLE SHOT!
I’ll be out there getting you registered to win another $500 bucks to Ozona. Laura Gonzalez was my lucky winner last go round, and we’ve got another giveaway coming up at the end of the summer. For details check out our facebook.
And last but certainly not least, Hippie Joe is back as tonight’s Rock the Republic featured performer! He takes the stage at 8 pm. Here’s a sneak preview from my show today when he dropped in to hum a few bars, recite me some awesome poetry, then fight with me about superheroes. (Which he’s totally wrong about btdub)
See yall tonight!
And starting at 8